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About Bonny
How I Came to This Work
For a long time, my life looked successful from the outside.
I built a solid career, earned respect, and did work that mattered. I was capable, committed, and deeply invested in being useful. Like many women I work with now, I learned early how to be a team player — how to read the room, carry responsibility, and add value wherever I could.
What I didn’t know how to do was stay connected to myself while doing all of that.
Over time, my focus moved almost entirely outward — toward performance, contribution, and doing things “right.” I trusted effort. I trusted competence. I believed that if I showed up fully and gave enough, the right doors would eventually open.
That belief held — until it didn’t.
A deep career rupture finally stopped me. After years of staying late, coming in early, and carrying more than my share, I was passed over for a leadership opportunity I had worked toward for a long time. Twice.
The disappointment was immediate and destabilizing. Not just because of the role itself — but because the identity I had built around being dependable, indispensable, and “enough” through effort collapsed all at once.
That moment forced a question I could no longer avoid:
If doing everything right wasn’t enough… then what was I actually orienting my life around?
How I Learned to Listen Differently
I spent the next several years rediscovering myself — untangling old beliefs and patterns, reconnecting with my spiritual life, and learning how to listen for what was true for me, not just what was expected or rewarded.
Around that same time, my husband and I bought a small camp in the Adirondacks. What started as a weekend escape slowly became something else entirely.
Camp isn’t a place for doing.
It’s a place for being.
There, I returned to the simplest rhythms of life and nature: eating when I was hungry, sleeping when I was tired, moving my body, letting myself get dirty, quiet, and still. In this sacred place, I remembered how to fully inhabit my life again.
Over time, I stopped asking What should I do?
and started listening for what’s actually true in this moment.
That shift quietly changed how I make decisions — and how I understand leadership itself.
What Shapes My Work Now
I don’t help women “push through” or optimize themselves into exhaustion.
My work is grounded in the understanding that clarity emerges when you stop overthinking and abandoning yourself.
I help women return to themselves through steadiness, presence, and honest self-relationship. Not by fixing or improving who they are, but by creating space to notice what’s real and respond from there.
This approach is shaped by my own lived experience — learning what happens when achievement stops working, and what's possible when you begin to orient from your inner compass instead.
It’s also informed by my research-backed training as a women-centered transformational coach. That training blends a breakthrough coaching framework with a deep awareness of how social conditioning, nervous system patterns, and relational dynamics shape women’s leadership, capacity, and self-trust.
Who this work is for
I work with women who are rockstar humans — women who have already done a lot with their lives, and done it well.
And then something shifted.
Despite everything they’ve accomplished, they can feel that something more is wanting to be born through them. Not more achievement — more truth, aliveness, and alignment. They don’t always have words for it yet, but they know it’s real.
Often, this awakening comes as familiar identities begin to crack — career roles, caretaking identities, definitions of success that once organized everything. A deeper question surfaces:
If I’m no longer defined by what I do for others… who am I now?
Many of the women I work with are deeply purpose-driven, and also done being consumed by it. Others feel the pull of a creative or soul-level calling they’ve never given themselves permission to pursue.
What they share is a growing refusal to keep offering their lives to systems that profit from their overwork and overgiving.
They’re not lost.
They’re waking up.
If this resonates...
Trust that.
I work with women who are ready to stop orienting their lives around expectation and begin listening for what’s actually true — in their bodies, their choices, and their leadership.
If you feel called to explore what’s next for you, I’d love to begin that conversation together.